chore(dotfiles): add foot window titles, herdr keybinds, fix jq tab escapes

- Add -T window title flags to all SSH/tmux/herdr desktop entries
- Rename nca-ai-01.desktop -> nca-ai-01-tmux.desktop, update mise symlink
- Add herdr reload_config and zoom keybinds, toast delivery config
- Bind Leader+Shift+Return to launch herdr terminal
- Fix jq \t to literal tab in hyprland client scripts

desktop/tmux.desktop

@@ -1,8 +1,8 @@
 [Desktop Entry]
 Version=1.0
-Name=Tmux Terminal
-Comment=Tmux Terminal
-Exec=foot -a tmux mise exec -- tmux new -A -s main
+Name=Terminal tmux
+Comment=Terminal with tmux
+Exec=foot -a tmux -T "terminal tmux" mise exec -- tmux new -A -s main
 Terminal=false
 Type=Application
 Icon=foot