chore(dotfiles): add foot window titles, herdr keybinds, fix jq tab escapes

- Add -T window title flags to all SSH/tmux/herdr desktop entries
- Rename nca-ai-01.desktop -> nca-ai-01-tmux.desktop, update mise symlink
- Add herdr reload_config and zoom keybinds, toast delivery config
- Bind Leader+Shift+Return to launch herdr terminal
- Fix jq \t to literal tab in hyprland client scripts

desktop/nca-ai-01-tmux.desktop

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+[Desktop Entry]
+Version=1.0
+Name=nca-ai-01 tmux
+Comment=remote dev
+Exec=foot -a nca-ai-01-tmux -T "nca ai 01 tmux" ssh nca-ai-01 mise exec -- tmux new -A -s main
+Terminal=false
+Type=Application
+Icon=foot
+StartupNotify=true